People who are waiting for marriage to have sex.
#5
Posted 27 May 2005 - 08:42 PM
I'm cool with it, providing their opinion's not forced down my throught
#6
Posted 27 May 2005 - 10:08 PM
Still doesn't mean that if my friend made that choice I wouldn't poke jokes at him from time to time like you do a fat friend or a dumbass friend.
But if it was my girlfriend who made that choice I would probably curse my luck and break it off because I don't really want to get married in the future. (Maybe but it just don't fit in my plans)
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#7
Posted 28 May 2005 - 01:04 AM
#8
Posted 28 May 2005 - 02:49 AM
People like me. I'm quite proud of my virginity.
Of course, it's probably easier to feel that way because I'm female. From what I understand, it seems like males are more ashamed and embarrassed by their virginity.
I can't see sex as being some casual, meaningless thing. That kind of invasion, putting yourself in that position...that's big. Very, very big. That's a special kind of purity and you can never it get back once it’s lost. And I don't plan to allow anyone to do that to me unless I can willingly and confidentially bind myself to that person for life.
...That may have sounded a bit over dramatic there, but...
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#9
Posted 28 May 2005 - 03:06 AM
But sex is certainly not something to be taken lightly.
This post has been edited by Slade: 28 May 2005 - 03:07 AM
#10
Posted 28 May 2005 - 06:06 AM
#11
Posted 28 May 2005 - 06:21 AM
To male posters: What do you think about the situation when a person you have affection towards would like to wait for marriage, and she is not willing to marry for the next 4 years at last?
#12
Posted 28 May 2005 - 07:12 AM
Lord Meklor: It really depends on how much affection you feel towards them. If you can convince yourself that it's worth it then there should be no problem. One question though; Are other things on the menu, or are we purely talking intercourse here?
#13
Posted 28 May 2005 - 07:21 AM
Lord Meklor: It really depends on how much affection you feel towards them. If you can convince yourself that it's worth it then there should be no problem. One question though; Are other things on the menu, or are we purely talking intercourse here?
This person follows Catholic doctrine, so things like Oral Sex are also out of question, though I am not pushing it, I am trying to be delicate. And sexual attraction is actually the least important reason I am with this person, I find her personality fascinating and really suitable for me. But sometimes I feel a bit... unfullfilled.
This post has been edited by Lord Melkor: 28 May 2005 - 07:24 AM
#14
Posted 28 May 2005 - 07:45 AM
No, seriously, If it's going to bother you for a long time (4 years) and you think there's a chance that it'll screw things up further down the line, you might be better off calling it off for both your sakes. In my experience, Good friends are far easier to deal with than (potential) lovers.
#15
Posted 28 May 2005 - 11:10 AM
Sex has been turned from something that is fun into some kind of competitive sport by the corporate media. The ideal of the "player" is constantly talked up, and the porno industry makes millions off of people who could see most of the stuff just as easily for free.
Personally I find the idea of saving virginity to be a virtuous and kind of independent decision. It's probably an especially good idea for women to wait cuz, lets face it, theres plenty of men who are just looking for that certain something.
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